What have you experienced?
Begin with stories and firsthand experience rather than accusations.
The Neighbor Table
A dependable agenda for honest conversation.
Every chapter follows the same basic structure so gatherings remain welcoming, fair, useful, and focused on strengthening the community.
Model gathering
75 minutes from welcome to action.
The schedule can be adjusted for local needs, but every gathering should include listening instruction, respectful discussion, reflection, and a practical next step.
Moderator’s jobProtect the process, not a preferred outcome. Make room for every voice and bring the group back to the principles when necessary.
Welcome and connection
Greet neighbors, share refreshments, introduce the moderator, and make sure newcomers know they belong.
Purpose and principles
Read the meeting purpose and briefly review the eight conversation principles.
Listening lesson
Teach one short lesson from the Art of Listening curriculum and explain how participants will practice it.
Neighbor Table discussion
Introduce one clearly framed community topic. Use small tables, equal speaking opportunities, sincere questions, and reflective listening.
What we learned
Invite participants to share something they understand better—not who won or lost the discussion.
Serve together
Identify one realistic act of service, connection, or follow-up that neighbors can take together.
Choose what comes next
Collect suggestions for a future topic, announce the next gathering, and close with appreciation.
Discussion sequence
Learn before trying to solve.
What do you understand now?
Reflect what you heard and identify where assumptions changed.
What can neighbors do?
Look for realistic common ground and one practical action.
Prepare for the conversation.
Review the listening lessons and shared principles before leading a gathering.
Read the curriculum