Hometown Together · The Art of Listening
Neighbor Table Agenda
Complete the blanks, print, and use this listening-centered agenda with any local chapter and community topic.
Date and location: ____________________________
Topic: ______________________________________
Chapter: ____________________________________
Moderator: __________________________________
75-minute run of show
| Minutes | Activity |
|---|---|
| 0-5 | Welcome: name the topic, purpose, and right to pass |
| 5-10 | Commitments: listen to learn, ask, protect dignity, keep stories private |
| 10-18 | Topic frame: share essential facts and define unfamiliar terms |
| 18-38 | Listening round: each person speaks; a partner reflects before response |
| 38-58 | Fair disagreement: summarize before naming agreement and disagreement |
| 58-68 | Common ground: identify shared values, next steps, and open questions |
| 68-73 | Optional faith, personal, or quiet reflection; passing is welcome |
| 73-75 | Close: name one listening practice and a possible next topic |
Commitments to read aloud
- Let each person finish before responding.
- Speak from your own experience.
- Ask questions to understand, not to trap.
- Summarize a neighbor's meaning before challenging it.
- Criticize ideas without demeaning people.
- Share the speaking time and allow anyone to pass.
Before everyone leaves
One thing we learned:
Suggested next topic:
Next Table Guide / meeting date:
Hometown Together · Building stronger communities, one conversation at a time. Prepared for chapter and community educational use.